Showing posts with label Steve Taylor. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Steve Taylor. Show all posts

Monday, June 27, 2016

2016 Mid-Ohio Valley Hall of Fame Ceremony-Friends, Family, Coaches and History

April 1982 vs June 2016
Tom Hill, John Hashman, Rob Taylor, Steve Taylor
1982 WV State A-AA 4x800M Relay Champions
and current meet record holders 34 years later.
On June 11, 2016 I traveled home to St. Marys/Parkersburg, WV for the Mid-Ohio Valley Sports Hall of Fame banquet which included the induction of former Williamstown HS and University of Richmond standout, Ryan Jobes and my lifelong friend and St. Marys HS/Cedarville College standout, Tom Hill.  For several months I looked forward to seeing so many friends, family and coaches from yesteryear. What a weekend it was...and great memories where revisited time and time again.

Along with being an exceptional person, amazing friend and caring man; Tom Hill is one of the most decorated runners in St. Marys High School history and is one of the best ever to run our West Virginia hills. His 9:22.74 performance in the 3200M at the 1982 WV AA-A State Championships ranks #5 All-Time in the 1980's behind 3 other SMHS runners and his 1600M performance ranks #4 All-Time in the 1980's at the WV A-AA State Meet...He placed 3rd and 7th in the WV State Cross Country Championships in 1981 & 1980 respectively and was the first leg on the SMHS Record Setting 4X800M Relay in 1982 (see photo above). That state meet record still stands (as of June 2016) now some 34 years later.

After graduating from SMHS he went on to continue his career at Cedarville College (OH), where he was a NAIA All-American in the 3K and a four time NCCAA Outdoor Track Champion, winning the 5,000M in 1984 & 1987, the 10,000M in 1984 and 1500M in 1986. He was also named Cedarville’s 1986 Male Athlete of the Year and a few years later was inducted into Cedarville's Sports Hall of Fame.

Following his athletic career at Cedarville, he went on to Baylor University where he helped the women's 4X800M Relay team earn its first NCAA All-America honors in school history. He dedicated himself to Baylor University where he served their department and central Texas loyally for 28 years.

He's a great, Christian man with an awesome family and a perfect choice for the Mid-Ohio Valley Sports Hall of Fame...

GROWING OLDER

As I reflect on the weekend I'm reminded of several stories from our team and Tom... Growing older is a ride and for those experiencing it you surely relate. Sometimes stories grow with time, it is my hope that our stories do not, and that they stand on their own merits. Some may seem a stretch, but both my cousin Rob and I seem to have a knack for remembering details to events now some 30-40 years later. He can tell a story as good as anyone as you will see below.

None of us want anything to be inflated as time passes...we just tell it the way it happened. This is likely seeded in our early teenage years of off-bearing on the sawmill with our dad's (Delbert and Art), Uncle Harold and brothers and cousins as we listened to our dad's and uncle's tell stories with great detail. Working on the sawmill was hard, hard work but it helped shape us like nothing else (Stacking 350+ pound 7"X9" railroad ties as a teenager will harden you like nothing else.). Their stories were countless, funny and were often an education in and of themselves...many of which included enlightenment on the bird's and the bees. Regardless, as rambunctious teenagers, at the end of each day of saw milling we were ready for a release by just about any method.

It really was a great time to grow up in our town and to this day there is no place I would have traded to be. A community of great people and a place where hard work was rewarded.  Our sport of choice demanded hard work, self-discipline, internal motivation and raw competitiveness. Running was a perfect match for our crew.

Coach Jerry Rea was a huge influence on our success and was the architect in forming a high school program now founded with rich history based on his leadership to many state team titles.  He had so many quotes that I have spent much of my adult life and coaching career drawing from. Statements like "that's nickel and dime boys, nickel and dime" sent a loud message to us.  We knew when he made that statement we were doing something unacceptable and we quickly moved to correct what we were doing.  We could never accept anything at a "nickel and dime" level. To consider it was insulting to most of those who came before us. Many of the SMHS athletes before us, including our brothers, did not settle for anything except their best from themselves. Coach Rea held discipline on our team and he demanded the same level of commitment from everyone one on the team...everyone.  Our 4x800M Relay was no different...I felt no different. To this day it influences and defines my own coaching style.

We were fortunate to have a good team in 1982 and would sit for 45 minutes at the beginning of practice at least one day per week listening to Coach Rea talk about the upcoming meet and how we could get team points on the board.  He would ask our opinion to engage us and get us invested in what we needed to accomplish...to understand what we needed to do for the team.  He was the master at figuring out ways to maximize our point total in the championship meets (the Little Kanawha Conference, Region and State Championship meets) by trying athletes in events they never dreamed of competing in.  He would often say, "even if we lose the battle boys, we can win the war"...but we always wanted to win the battle AND the war...and so did he! It was a time of competitiveness and we competed at everything we did. It made no difference what it was, we wanted to win and Coach Rea knew it and used it to motivate us.

By the time our 4X800M Relay got to the spring of 1982 our high school was known throughout the state since our SMHS forefathers had laid the path for us with two state track & field team titles and two runner-up team finishes in a four year stent...Fresh in our minds were the successes of our brothers and cousins, plus Paul Reed, Scott Jemison, Gene Smith, Jeff Bailey, Max Campbell, Ron Doak, brothers’ David & Earl Stephens, Charlie Strait, Elmer Burns, Tom Cox, Mike Nazelrod, Brian Williams, Wayne Mulenix and the Oldfield's to name a few. These were young men who taught us that we could win in our small town. As youngsters we watched from the stands and drank in their individual and team victories...we learned... waited for our turn...our time to step up to the plate. It was like poking a caged animal with a stick...we wanted a piece of the pie...we wanted a seat at the table....we wanted to do what they did...only better. Without them laying the foundation we surely could not and would not have achieved what we did. That's a simple fact!

As I entered HS in 1979 our community was still struggling, coming off the April 27, 1978 Willow Island Disaster, just a few miles south of St. Marys, which claimed the lives of 51 of our very own and many of our relatives and family friends in what stands as the largest construction accident in U.S. history. That one event truly changed our community forever. It's a story I've struggled to write about for several years and still can't find the words.

These things shaped who we were and to this day, who we ARE. We were fighters and the track provided an outlet for us to run out our anger, our passion and competitiveness. Running was our escape...it was our release...it was the place that we were a lone with our thoughts discovering who we were...it became our mission!  It was our path to the uncertain future. Coach Rea always said, "You are only as good as your last race" and we approached every race like it was our last...after all, we knew all too well that it could be.

On the SMHS steps outside the gymnasium in the early summer of 1979 Coach Rea asked cousin Rob, John Hashman and a group of us if we were going to come out for the cross country team that fall. It was a new sport to our high school and my cousin asked, “What’s cross country?” I personally had no idea. Actually none of us had any idea what cross country was. Coach Rea replied, “Well, you run through fields and creeks and jump logs and that sort of thing.” As we stood there on the high school steps we just looked at each other. Then we nodded that “yes” we would run and concluded that this ‘cross country’ thing sounded like what we did practically every day anyway. Coach Rea is a man of few words and as he left us standing there in front of the school we began to talk with excitement about this new sport to our school. 

Enter Tom Hill

Stickman and Hillba were all I knew him as for a few days.  He tipped the scale just north of 100 pounds soaking wet and if he stood sideways behind a telephone pole he could literally disappear. He was one thin dude who would become one of our closest friends and someone I would trust with anything...and still do to this day. True friends are hard to come by and in my opinion you have only a few in your lifetime.  Growing up and to this day Tom Hill is one of those friends. He's genuine, honest and loyal--you can't ask for anything more in a friend.  

During our four years at high school, SMHS jumped into the sport of cross country with great success for a public school of our small size (~380 total students grades 9-12 give or take a couple and depending on pregnancies). The first year (1979) we even had a cross country program our team placed second in the state championships…and that was in the AAA division and without Tom Hill (there was only one division at the time under the WVSSAC.)! 

Why were we without Tom you may ask?  Well, in August of that year he and his family went to the Holy Land on a Christian Pilgrimage. As I mentioned before, Coach Rea held everyone to the same standard and he expected everyone who wanted to be part of the team to be at every practice...no exceptions.  My cousin Rob knew Tom could run and that he would help our team. He even mentioned to Coach that Tom was good.  Tom and his family returned a week into cross country practice...He came to practice to join the team. Coach said he would need to wait until spring track season to run since he missed the first week of practice. Looking back now the state AAA XC title likely slipped through our grasp at that moment.


As we all moved through the years our cross country season officially started in early August, however a group of us would meet in our hometown on Rt 2, the road next to our high school.  Every afternoon at 5:00PM during the summer months we would gather to train and prepare for the fall season. It was not mandated by Coach Rea…There was no fixed training schedule…No one forced us to do it. No one called us to make sure we were there to run at 5:00PM. It was just expected by each of us and what we wanted to do. Just like we ate, worked, hydrated...we also ran...e-v-e-r-y day.

Back in those days we had a hard core group that met daily. The group included Tom "Stickman" Hill, my brothers Mike and Cliff, my cousin Larry, our good friends Lee Haddox…Don “Beets” Harding...and in the later years Danny DeMoss, Gerald Bookman and Doyle Monday joined us. We’d even had runners from across the state and other schools like Mark Nichols (Elkins HS), Denny Love (Charleston area), Jeff Hammons (University of Wisconsin) who is the nephew of Randy Hammons of Kings Ridge and the Sarver brothers (Joe and Roger) from Marietta, OH who stopped by to run with us. Mark Nichol’s grandmother lived in Belmont; the town next to St. Marys and he moved to live with her for the summer of 1981 for what we believe was the sole purpose of training with us. In an age before cell phones and the internet it was not uncommon to have a group of 8-10 people meeting on any given day of the week in our small town.


St. Marys HS, West Virginia
We trained hard and treated every day as an opportunity to prove something and to improve ourselves. At the time we didn’t know or understand what it was we were trying to prove and we certainly did not understand training or the physiology behind it, but rest assured every run ended in a race back to the high school. One day it would be the last mile of the run and the next it was the last 800M. Every day someone would push the issue (i.e. - the pace)…every day someone felt good…everyday someone in the group felt they could prove they had the stronger will. Everyday someone was right and someone was wrong. It was simple, uncomplicated and pure to its heart. It defined us and Tom Hill was an integral part of the definition.

FIGURE 8's IN THE COUNTY PARK

One of our trade mark's within the county was the path we wore through the Pleasants County Park each fall.  You see our county park was about a mile walk from our high school and we walked it everyday with coach before and after practice. As we walked over to start practice nearly every day we would pass former SMHS 400M Record Holder, Bill "Billy" Williamson, who was our towns U.S. Mail carrier...And every day my cousin Rob would say to him, "What kinda milk man are you." This would always make Bill smile and the rest of us laugh.  As the years rolled by it became funnier and funnier to Bill but mostly us. The more times it was said, the funnier it got...which might be a guy thing. Bill came back to running becoming a successful local road racer winning his age group in many of the local competitions. 

We arrived at the park each day ready to work.  It sits at the eastern edge of town, alongside of route 16, which is one of the two busiest roads within our county. The park sits on the side of the roughly mile long-Pike Hill (in later years my brothers, Mike and Cliff and I would actually race loaded Lambert and Westbrook dump trucks up this hill.).  It's a hill many outside our state would describe as a mountain, with the county park's swimming pool and ball fields on the flatter section at the bottom.

The upper section of the park where we ran, sits on the side of a large hill, includes a dirt road around the perimeter and an intersecting road through the middle along with a power line with large wooden poles, we called the "Right-A-Way". The park manager at the time was Jim McFarland, who would later serve as the county sheriff for many years, and he lived in a house within the park along route 16.  There was a steep hill next to his home which we aptly named, "McFarland's Hill" and it is still called that today. It was so steep we would ~almost~ rather run up it than we would run down it.

The Park, as we call it to this day, was coach Rea's favorite place for cross country practice.  Occasionally, we would run on the track and The Island.  The Island referred to Middle Island which was owned by the Ingram Family and sits at the confluence of Middle Island Creek and the Ohio River.  The Ingram's were prominent within our county and were a founding family within the area.  They would later agree for Middle Island to become the Middle Island Wildlife Refuge and today is my favorite location to run when I return home.  During our high school years it was planted from one end of its 2.2 mile length to the other in corn and potatoes...However, it was The Park where our blisters became callouses and we were forged into iron in the fires of the WV hills.

By midseason the go to workout for coach was "5 times the Figure 8 within the park on handicap".  We would start in reverse order from the previous time we ran the workout, with the fastest person starting last at a given time after the slowest runner from the previous practice. Theoretically, everyone would finish at the exact same time IF we ran exactly the same time as before.  Of course that never happened and we would often find our very good teammate, Lee Haddox, laying low on a day in order to gain an advantage/head start the next time we ran that workout. 

The Figure 8 laps in the park were 1.1 miles in length and tough...They made us strong, versatile and helped us shine at the championships which tended to be on hilly courses.  The Figure 8 we refer to would change directions on varying days and included McFarlands Hill, the Right-A-Way and Bald Knob within the park. Some days we went up McFarland's Hill and other days we would go down...but every day we did Figure 8's.  

Bald Knob is the highest point in our town and provides a good vantage point from within the park.  Since it looked similar, I always thought it was an Indian burial place like the one the Native American Adena People (Mound Builders) built between ~1000 B.C. and 700 A.D. in nearby Harmony Acres.  For us, it had another name given by our Dad's/Uncles...affectionately named "Skinner Back" Knob.  We always got a chuckle out of this and the stories surrounding that location which dated back several decades. We still laugh when someone refers to it by that name which is the only name we use, unless ladies are present...then it's Bald Knob.  
View from just below Bald Knob overlooking our hometown of St. Marys, WV
Our Figure 8 also included crossing the center of the park on the mowed power line we called the Right-A-Way...it was our favorite part of the loop.  We demanded that our turns across the Right-A-Way include passing through the two large wooden poles.  I recall my cousins get pretty hot about people "cutting the course" by not passing through the two poles...It simply was not acceptable to consider a short-cut.

We crossed the Right-A-Way (the center of the Figure 8) twice each lap and could gauge how much distance we were gaining on our teammates with each pass. We particularly enjoyed passing the few girls on the team and often talked about how much better the view was with them on the loop...It served as motivation on more than one occasion. 

About 2/3's of the way across the Right-A-Way was a large ditch that required a serious leap in order to cross it.  We were so small, Coach Rea became concerned he might lose one of us in the ditch which was about 6 feet wide and 4 feet deep. So, he found an old Pleasants County Park sign and placed it over the ditch.  We thought it would be moved by the park's maintenance folks, but it stayed in place for a couple years before it was replaced.  It was a simple decision by coach, but I'm sure he saved several injuries by placing it.   

As we made lap...after lap...after lap of the park and the season progressed we would slowly start to wear a path through the grass section of the course through the power line Right-A-Way.  In August and September the smell of fresh cut grass filled the air announcing it was cross country season. As we got into October and the leaves began to change you would catch a crisp smell of the arrival of fall as our worn path became even more pronounced as it was worn to dirt.  It was a badge of success for us...It was a symbol of our hard work and a symbol of sweat and toil.  We had worn the grass out and turned what had started as a grass trail into dirt.  

More than once we headed to the Farm Fresh, our local convenience store, to grab a post workout beverage and then jump into the car and drive up the Pike Hill on Route 16 just to look at the worn path as we drove by.  It was a symbol that we took pride in and to this day it is a symbol of what it takes to be champions.
Sun setting on the Ohio River on June 12, 2016 at the Willow Island Dam. The crimson sunsets are still as they were in my childhood days.

St. Marys sits on the banks of the Ohio River within the rolling hills of West “By God” Virginia. It is beautiful country and I recall the sun setting on the Ohio side of the river and the views we would get from running the “Old Pike” which is a mile long hill that winds its way from downtown St. Marys uphill to Rt. 16 before we would hang a right and head down “Shadow Hill” back into town. Those views of the Ohio River and those brilliant sunsets are etched in our memories.

As the spring of 1982 arrived, Tom, Rob and John were headed into their senior year track season and I into my junior.  On some levels I was sad thinking about my best friends graduating. No time for that, so we all set our sights on the 4x800M Relay and the state meet record that SMHS set 2 years earlier when Tom and I teamed up with my cousin, Larry Taylor and Lee Haddox to claim the WV AA state title in meet record time (8:09.44).

That record was a point of contention and boarder line argument on several occasions in our household and on the sawmill.  You see in 1976 the state of WV still competed in distances using English measurements and two of my brothers (Cliff & Matt) teamed up with two brothers and our first cousins (Dale & Kevin) to win the 4x880 Yard Relay in 8:12.70 (Even as an 11 year old kid, I thought it was pretty sweet two sets of Taylor brothers set a state meet record in the 4X880 Yard Relay. It's still on the record books since the English distances were retired shortly after.).  If you convert their 8:12.70 in the 4X880 Yard Relay to a 4X800M Relay time its 8:09.90!  So, which was better...the 1976 relay team (8:09.90) or the 1980 relay team (8:09.44).  This needed to be settled or put to rest and the only way was to run a time faster than both!

Our season would be based on this principle point.

RACES

Well before the state championships we found ourselves preparing. Tom, Don Harding, Mike Cunningham and John Hoff were on the basketball team, but a small group of us still found time to make it to Morgantown to the Shell Building for the Sunday afternoon all comer meets hosted by the West Virginia Track Club.

On one of those trips we stopped at a McDonald's to grab a biscuit. Tom was known far and wide to eat anything! The man was named Stickman for a reason, but it was not due to has lack of eating. He ate A LOT...and practically anything he was offered.  As we sat down at a table Tom headed off to the restroom. 

About the same time, a small group of strangers at a table next to us got up and left the restaurant. They left their trays on the table which included a couple of half-eaten hash browns. Without saying anything, my brother Cliff reached over and grabbed the half eaten hash browns and sat them on his tray. We said nothing and just looked at him with a look of, "what the heck?"

As our conversation quickly changed subjects, Stickman returned to the table a few minutes later.  As we sat eating our biscuits, Stickman got the gleam in his eyes of additional hunger.  He looked at Cliff and pointed to the half-eaten hash browns and said, "You going to finish those?" Cliff casually said, "naaaa, I don't want them" as Tom grabbed both and powered them down before we could blink or respond. We sat there in complete disbelief looking at Stick and then at Cliff.

By this point those hash browns were half digested as Tom realized something must be up. That's when he said with a chuckle, "what's up?" Cliff responded with the Benny Hill Salute as we busted out laughing at what we had just witnessed.  It all happened so fast we simply had no time to respond.  When Stickman found out what Cliff had done he laughed louder, but from that point forward when someone offered him food...he asked a couple questions before devouring it.

We had some truly great years with lots of Benny Hill salutes...including a classic in the summer of 1981. We went to a road race in Moundsville as part of a large Marshall County Fair which included a 5K and a 10K. Our crew chose their races with Tom and Don Harding opting for the 5K and Cliff and I choosing the 10K. John Hoff was there, but he did not run either race.

The Benny Hill Salute was a signature for us since 1979. 
Benny Hill Salute at the Mid Ohio Valley Sports Hall of Fame Induction
(Front: L-R) Coach Lambiotte, Coach Rea, Steve Taylor, Tom Hill, 
Cliff Taylor
(Back: L-R) Mike Cunningham, Mike Taylor, John Hashman, Jim Taylor,
Rob Taylor, Matt Bailey, Don Harding
As Cliff and I warmed-up, a car passed us with a couple of drunk guys who threw a beer bottle at us, just narrowly missing us.  They went speeding off and as we chased them we were quickly ready to fight. We jogged a little further and flagged down a Sheriff's car passing by to report the incident. The officer was actually Rex Smalley, the Marshall County Sheriff himself.  We provided the license plate number to him and he informed us that he knew the car and who they were, adding that they were "no good" in his words. He asked our names and said he knew us from the papers and wished us luck. To say the least, the whole incident was a little distracting as we went about our warm-up.

We quickly turned our attention back to why we were there---running a Footrace.  Tom was a competitor and you better bring your best when you faced him in competition. On this night he easily won the 5K race setting a course record in the process.  I won the 10K with my brother, Cliff not far behind. As we approached the finish line I could hear voices from above.  As Cliff said last week, "I thought God was speaking to me from above during the race." As the finish line got closer the voices got louder and as I crossed the line I heard God shouting out "come on Shine!"  Shine was Tom's nickname for Cliff. "Why would God yell for Shine", I thought?  

As I looked around my attention and vision started looking upward.  At this county fair they had a hot air balloon that you could pay $5 for a ride and it was located directly adjacent to the race course finish line. Heck, $5 to us might as well been $500 back then.  The number of people standing in line was at least 150 people in length waiting for a hot air balloon ride. Tom and Don wanted a ride in that balloon but they didn't want to spend $5 and they didn't want to wait two hours. Tom was not bashful and would ask anyone anything...They walked to the front of the line and told the owner of the hot air balloon that Tom had just won the race and just like that, they got their free ride.  It was hilarious.  As Cliff and I looked up at them from the finish line we got a Benny Hill Salute from both Stickman and Don.

Later that evening after being ready to Fight and then running a Footrace, we turned our attention to the chase as Tom, John Hoff and I cruised the Marshall County Fair.  We met a couple really nice, indecorous girls at the fair...their names were "Jenny" and "Karman with a K".  It seems they had seen us at the races.  I laugh to this day remembering Tom giving me a Benny Hill salute as we were getting to know Jenny a little better...I returned the salute as the Benny Hill theme song raced through my head. 

Sometime later as our conversation jumped from place to place, Jenny started talking about her dad and how he was the county Sheriff. I said, "Jenny, what's your last name?" She smiled and said, "Smalley".  Thinking back to a few hours earlier and speaking with the Sheriff, I said, "Is your dad Rex Smalley?" "Yes he is", she replied. About then is when Stickman and I looked at each other and decided it was time to head south to St. Marys. We found Hoff and got out of dodge in short order!  We've laughed about the odds of that and how it was a story few would believe.

SUGAR HILL GANG-Rappers Delight

If there was a theme song for our crew it was without question the Sugar Hill Gang's Rappers Delight. We loved it! Several members of our team had the lyrics memorized and we would trade off singing each verse as we blasted it on the bus enroot to our meets. What's known as the first rap song was music to our ears.  We were done with the Bee Gee's and ELO and ready for something new, and the Sugar Hill Gang was cutting edge for our West Virginia hills.



Even Coach Rea loved it and would come to the back of the bus and ask us to turn it up. Imagine the portable 8 tract player being replaced with the cutting edge, cassett tape player, a song 14:45 in length and several of us with the lyrics memorized, trading off verses. Fun times.

Our choice for listening the the Sugar Hill Gang from 1979-1982

BELLAIRE RELAYS

In April, 1982 Coach Rea split our team for the first and only time in my career. Stickman and I were running well...and so were our relay members. The Bellaire Relays in Bellaire, Ohio were one of the most prestigious meets in the nation at the time.  All the heavy hitters from Ohio and western PA attended. The entry standards we stiff and on paper Tom and I were the only two to meet the standards.  Coach Rea is a man of integrity and he would not adjust a person's time to get them in a meet or a faster section.  You were entered in what you had run.  As it would be, he entered Tom in the 1600M and me in the 3200M while our teammates went to another competitive meet over at Heath, OH.

Tom was in the slowest of 3 heats of the 1600M and I remember thinking, 'wow, this is serious competition". Stickman wasn't fazed...The competitor that he was, he went out there and took the lead from the gun and lit up the track.  He trounced the athletes in his section and broke 4:20 by a good bit. I remember watching him lay the leather to it and on the spot I went through a transformation. As the second and third heats ran they could not match Tom's mark. He won the 1600M at the Bellaire Relays out of the slowest section on paper and grabbed 10 points for SMHS! He did not care who it was, he competed to win and did.

That was one of the last races where I concerned myself with seed times.  Watching Tom win the 1600M was inspiring, exciting and motivating!  I went on to win the 3200M in 9:04 to help SMHS to 20 total team points.  So, at the end of the day, Tom and I scored a total of 20 points which placed 2nd in the team standings.  That was the first and last time Coach split our team. We know he looked at the results and realized 4th place or better in the 4X800M Relay would have been enough for SMHS to claim the prestigious team title at the Bellaire Relays. I believe it was a turning point for both Tom and I giving us a lot of confidence...especially as we headed into the WV State Championships in Charleston.

THE STATE CHAMPIONSHIPS

As we passed through the LKC and Regional Championships we were able to advance practically everyone that we thought could make it through plus a few that we didn't think would. The question was who would be on the 4X800M Relay...so, on Tuesday, May 25th Coach said, "We'll have a run off to start practice for anyone wanting a shot at the 4x800M for this weekend". Coach kept it pure and our sport simple...head-to-head competition and "you eat what you kill". The first four men across the line would comprise the team for the state meet. In the end it was Tom Hill, John Hashman, Rob Taylor and me.

Three short days later it was show time...Here's a recent account of the race from my cousin Rob, our third leg and to this day one of my best friends: 

"Just a story to share!
It was May 28th 1982 at my first and only State Meet as a competitor! And a lifelong memory was made. About an hour before race time John (Hashman) and I were hanging out under the stands when some boys from Buffalo Wayne got to talking about how fast they were going to run in the 4x800 (We had lost Steve and Tommy somewhere). We listened to them for quite a while when they finally see that we are eaves dropping. One of them asks us what event(s) we were in? Ah the 4x8, was my reply!!!! The look on their faces was priceless. Then they asked what kinda time did we think we could run? Ol' Hash took it upon himself to tell them that we were gonna go 8 flat. Priceless again for the look and the brashness of Hash. We even told them exact splits that we would run, I think we were a bit cocky now looking back but they started it.
Race time; Tommy is in a big heap of people for the first 600 meters. He starting making a move like he was shot from a cannon. He handed off to John clear of the field by about 30 meters and the race was over. His fastest split ever. Time: 1:57 
John ran his fastest split ever and added to the lead. Sorry Hash but I was in a fog waiting on you. I kept thinking come on come on! Time: 4:01
I get the stick and all I remember is don't drop the thing and get it to Steve. I also ran my fastest split ever and mighta added to the lead. Time: 6:04
Now it is time for Steve to show his stuff and that he did! WOW! It looked like he was in a dead sprint. He comes by on his first lap and we are feeling it. We are jumping up and down and screaming in his ear when he blows by us, then that dang official told us to calm down and get back or he was going to disqualify us. Thanks Tommy for having the sense to take heed and get us on safe ground. With a 100 meters to go Steve is clock watching as were we, so I never got to see all of his leg, but the looks on our faces when that clock stopped at 8:00.1 was once again priceless!! He had just ran his fastest split too. Thanks Steve and Tom for letting us talk the talk and then telling you that we needed some bailing out!

What a memory! BTW those boys never came around afterwards."

We were fortunate to have a lot of great sports/running memories from high school, but this one is my favorite. Four close friends came together and after years of training, miles and miles of running, countless laps and figure "8's" in the county park, lots of adventures and some crazy stories later we came together on the field of competition. The fact that we all ran our personal best relay splits in that race makes it that much better and no surprise given the preceding years. We simply did not and would not let each other down.

Tom Hill was an impressive runner and deserving of his induction to the Mid-Ohio Valley Sports Hall of Fame. We are thrilled with his selection! Congratulations Tom and thanks for your loyal friendship!  And thanks Tom, John and Rob for so many great memories and for being there. As we all came back together for Tom's induction I can't help but think how it seems like yesterday!

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Chapter 71: My Introduction to Lori McKee (25 Years Together...Our Silver Anniversary)


Too often it's considered one...however, in my opinion it's not showing weakness to admit and openly express your love when you care deeply for someone who gives you so much...We should enjoy every day that we have with the one's we love...In celebration of our 25th wedding anniversary here is chapter #71 (double click on the photos to enlarge)...

Chapter 71:     My Introduction to Lori McKee

Interview after winning the
1983 Atlantic 10 Conference
Cross Country title as a freshman
at WVU.
In the spring of 1985 I was finishing my sophomore year on the WVU track & field team when we traveled to Williamsburg, VA for the Colonial Relays. One of my high school rivals and friend was Joe Wilson. He was attending Virginia Tech, who was also in attendance of the Colonial Relays.  I remember standing along the W&M track talking to Joe and watching an incredibly beautiful girl running the 5,000M in a Virginia Tech uniform.  I asked Joe about her and he told me, "Lori McKee is her name".  After she finished racing he introduced us as she walked by to go warm down.  As she walked away, I looked at Joe and simply said, "WOW"! Little did I know at the time that it would be the first time I met my future wife. 

Working in the timber business
with my family.
As the semester came to a close I decided I would transfer to another school (See chapters 50-55). Joe invited me to visit him in Blacksburg, VA the home of the Virginia tech Hokies.  Since school was out for me at WVU, I was already working for my dad alongside my brothers and cousins in his timber business. I decided to make the trip south and visit Joe.  I got off work Friday afternoon, crammed in a run with my brothers and a few friends, jumped into the shower and then headed my little gray, $1200 Ford Fiesta south.  

As I drove I had to keep my feet planted firmly on the floorboard due to a rusted hole below the clutch pedal. If I didn't keep my feet on the floor the air from under the car would push the floor mat upward causing dirt and dust to fly up into your eyes.  It didn't matter to me, that little grey car ran well, got great gas mileage and got me where I needed to go.  However, I always kept a pair of running shoes in the back...Just in case. 

The New River near
Pearisburg, VA
I met Joe in Princeton, WV and then drove the 45 miles across RT 460 to "the 'Burg".  Rt 460 parallels the New River for much of the drive and I was drawn to the mountains and the New River as we drove.  The mountains were big and I certainly fell in love with them on the spot. As we drove I was reminded of the Wyoming Mountains and rivers my brothers and I hiked each summer. 

Later that evening, after arriving in the 'burg, Joe and I went to a team party where NCAA All-American 10K runner Mark Stickley and several of the other graduating VT seniors were the honorees.  The party concluded around 3:30AM and not to sound judgmental, but I was not impressed to see so many on the team up so late.  

As we left the party, everyone started shouting to each other, "B-Y-O-N at 6:00AM".  As we walked away, I asked Joe what "B-Y-O-N" was and he answered; "it stands for Bring Your Own Number".  He explained, "it's tradition here that on the morning of graduation the team does a run called B-Y-ON where you Bring Your Own Number."  I thought to myself that on 2.5 hours sleep there would be about 3 people show up for this team run and Joe and I would make up 2/3's of the group.  As morning arrived to my surprise nearly 40 men and women from the track & cross country teams met in the Derring Hall parking lot at 6:00AM sharp ready to run a ~10 mile route called "Mansion".

I was excited to begin.  These men and women were obviously serious about their running.  They stayed up late on graduation night but everyone was there with their favorite race number pinned to their shirt ready to run.  This was a group that I could really see myself being part of.  This was a team!  This was exactly what I was looking for in my college experience: serious, dedicated men and women. 

Then, just like on one of those 1980's movie's I looked around I saw Lori McKee walking across the parking lot with her roommate Janice Oswald. For me, as she walked, everything went into slow motion. Lori's hair was blowing in the slight wind and she had a cup of coffee in her hand and a smile on her face.  Again, I thought, "WOW"!

As we began to run I couldn't believe how much talking there was among team members.  I hung towards the back still feeling a bit of an outsider.  The run was about 10 miles in length and I spent at least the first half running with 800m runner, Joe Wilson...strategically placed behind Lori as she ran.  Oh yea, you know what I'm talking about!

By the 5 mile point the pace quickened and I was antsy to move to the front pack.  Joe said to go and I did. I ran with the front 5-6 men and finished the run with a smile on my face.  This was a team...This is what I wanted in my college experience...A serious group of runners!  This was a place I could really call home.  I went home later that evening and began to talk to my family about my visit, the mountains and the team. That fall I transferred to Virginia Tech.  

It was the VT Preseason XC Camp in early September of 1985 next time I saw Lori.  She arrived midweek at Camp Powhatan, a Boy Scout Camp in Hiwassee, VA we used for preseason, to say hello to former teammates. I recall everyone talking with her as she sat in the camp dining hall.  Although I was looking her direction often we never spoke to each other.  

Our next meeting was in late September. Lori was doing her student-teaching that trimester and therefore was not on campus. Our VT Coach, Todd Scully had several of us redshirting.  I was required by the NCAA to sit a year due to my transfer status, so coach had a group of us entered into the Virginia 10 Miler in Lynchburg, VA under his Jock Shop Racing Team. At the time it was one of the most prominent road races in the U.S. with many of the big names in attendance. We arrived late that night after Friday classes and most people wanted to simply go to bed.  Personally, I wanted to see the entire 10 Mile race course.  My high school coach (Jerry Rae) always stressed how important it was to know the entire course.  After all he said, "how can you race it if you don't know where you are going or what's around the next turn".  Words I lived by throughout my racing career and continue with athletes I coach even today.

Back in the day...
As we arrived at the hotel, there were only 3 people who wanted to actually preview the course by car that night: me, another teammate and Lori McKee.  She drove to the race by herself and said she certainly wanted to see the course, so off we drove in her car (A small light blue Ford Escort that had a bad habit of shutting down abruptly at stop lights).  As we followed the race course there were a couple places that we got turned around (off course) and before we knew it we had been searching to complete the course for nearly 60 minutes and still unsuccessful.  At the time there was a point about midway through the race course that included a one-way street that you could not drive down.  I was adamant that we see the entire course and at this point the strange girl driving the little light blue Ford Escort car wanted to cut the course preview and head back to rest at the hotel.  I looked at Lori with the look of, "who the heck are you"?  Let's just say I was less than happy and Lori was less than happy by the end of the course tour. I remember thinking, “Seriously, who’s ever heard of cutting the course preview short?”

The next day the race went great, even though I did not get to see the entire race course as Coach Rae taught us.  I broke 48:30 on the really hilly 10 Mile race course and finished in the top 7 with the race winner none other the Australian World Marathon Champion, Rob DeCastello. It was a great race with the entire VT crew all running really well.  Lori also ran well that day finishing in the top 15 women.

West Virginia's
Grandview State Park
on the New River.
From here our little love story has a break.  I completed the semester and never saw Lori again throughout the fall...She graduated after the fall trimester and moved home to northern VA where she was working for an engineering firm doing some CAD system work for them.  I was still in my year of residency as a transfer student, so Coach Scully was trying to provide racing opportunities through road races.  My times were dropping like a stone including a sub 23:10 effort for a certified 5 mile race sponsored by Fink’s Jewelers in Greensboro, NC in November where I won a Rolex watch valued at $2,500.  I recall looking at the watch and claiming it didn’t even have a stop watch function (Eventually it was of use to me. I sold the watch roughly a year and a half later to my sponsor and Adidas rep, Rusty Buchanan for $500 to purchase an engagement ring for Lori.). Life was good and I was really enjoying my time with my new teammates and running fast.  My day was structured as follows: up at 6:00AM to run, followed by breakfast, classes, an hour of aerobics, afternoon practice, dinner, followed by studying, off to sleep by 10:00PM...Run, Eat, Classes, Run, Eat, Study, Sleep…repeat...day after day after day after day.  I had no steady girlfriend which equaled no distractions...period.  My life was complete and totally focused on one thing and one thing only: running FAST and living the dream!!

As the fall moved to winter and winter moved to spring it was time for our annual team trip to Florida for spring break. It was Friday, March 7, 1986 when our team started loading the vans to drive to Florida.  I'd been on enough trips to know that you needed to be early to claim the best seat for a trip of that length.  I arrived and climbed into the back seat of one of the van's... propped my feet up and covered my head as if I was sleeping.  This is usually enough to keep most people from jumping in the seat with you.  My goal was to have the entire backseat to myself so I could sleep my way to Florida.  I was pretty excited because team members told me we were staying on the beach in Jacksonville, FL. No one knew it, but I had never been to the beach before...Literally I had never walked on a sandy beach in bare feet or seen the sun rise over the ocean.

Everyone was loaded when Coach Scully started the van.  I thought, "Yes, I made it and have this seat to myself".  As Todd started to pull away I heard people in the van yelling to him that someone was coming across the parking lot.  The doors to our van opened and in climbed none other than...Lori McKee.  She had no place to sit except the back seat next to me.

As she climbed into the back seat we exchanged somewhat pleasant greetings with each other, but as I did I couldn't help but think about the previous September, 6 months earlier, when because of her I did not get to see the entire Lynchburg 10 Mile course.  Oh boy, yes she was good looking but this was going to be a long, long ride to Florida.

We each retreated to our corner of the backseat and tried to sleep.  By the time we got an hour down the road to the NC state line she had worn out her side of the backseat trying to get comfortable.  As she tried to get comfortable I asked her if she would like to lie down.  I moved to the extreme right of the seat and she put her pillow next to me laying her head down.  As I looked at her we began to talk.  At first we talked about where we were each from.  She seemed to be genuinely interested in my West Virginia roots and before I knew it we were in South Carolina and then Georgia...Neither of us stopped talking...Neither of us slept...I couldn't believe how much we had in common and our common interests.  We spent nearly 10 hours of simply talking to each other.  I never knew talking to a female could be so easy...and I'd never met anyone who would simply listen with interest.  It was obvious she was special...It was obvious she was amazing...In that one van ride with her to Florida, everything...everything began to become obvious.

As spring break continued, Lori celebrated her birthday.  She invited me to meet her on the beach that March morning in 1986 at 5:45AM to watch the sunrise over the ocean.  Something I had told her on the van ride I had never seen.  I set my alarm and woke up before it even went off....When I walked down to the Lobby of the hotel there she stood holding a cup of coffee and a smile on her face as she asked me, "are you ready to see the sunrise".  Right then and there I concluded you know if a woman is beautiful if at 5:45AM she looks amazing.  And let me tell you as I looked at Lori standing in the lobby with her 1980's runners shorts and that red sweatshirt she was wearing I was trying to play it "cool" but I was thinking about just how attractive she really was.

We sat on the beach, watched the sunrise and continued to tell stories.  We laughed and then laughed some more.  Then, as if on cue, we looked at each other and realized it was time to go run.  As we began to date very few people even knew.  We hardly ever talked to each other at practice because we both had complete focus on our workouts and our purpose.  Every day I would try to run fast enough to impress her. I remember doing a workout on this same trip with Steve Pinard.  Steve was another Adidas sponsored athlete who I lived with and a sub 13:45 runner in the 5,000M. The workout was 16x400M with 1 minute recovery. Steve and I ran the workout together and averaged under 59 seconds for all of them...I had never ran a workout that fast and it was simply because Lori was on the track at the same time and I wanted to impress her.  Heck, she was likely not even aware of what I was running at the time.  However, no exaggeration on the times of that workout, we rolled it.

Over the following months Lori and I grew closer and closer...finally admitting to each other that we indeed loved each other.  We decided we would go to the Montana and Wyoming Mountains that summer to spend a couple weeks backpacking while chasing native cutthroat trout with a fly rod throughout the snowcapped peaks outside of Red Lodge, MT. As we packed our backpacks and the car we both threw in a pair of racing flats.  As we laughed I said, "You just never know when you'll need these" as I referred to the racing flats. 

My look in 1987 while
backpacking in Wyoming
We hit the road and drove west spending 10 days in the mountains living on not much more than wild trout and oatmeal.  Trust me, if you want to know someone, especially a female, take them backpacking for 10 days without a warm shower and only camp food made over an open fire or a Whisperlite Stove.  Also, if you want to know if a female is truly beautiful, take her backpacking for 10 days without a warm shower and no mirror. This trip confirmed for me that Lori was beautiful in every way...every day.  I said to myself, "WOW". It was obvious she was special...It was obvious she was amazing...Everything...everything was obvious.

Lori in 1988
As we headed home from Montana, driving south through Wyoming, we decided to stop in Boulder, CO to visit with some running friends.  At the time, Boulder, CO was the place to be if you were a distance runner.  We stayed in our first hotel in over 10 days in a small town called Steamboat Springs, CO.  The next morning we got up to see a donut store down the street from our hotel.  It was 7:30AM when we walked through the doors wearing our typical running clothes.  Lori ordered coffee and I ordered us a dozen of their finest.  As I paid for the coffee and donuts and began to take a big bite out of a jelly filled the owner looked at us and said, "You in town for the race?"  I pulled the donut back from my mouth as Lori and I looked at each other and looked back at him and in unison said, "Race, what race?"  He pointed out his window and said, "There's a 5K race this morning at 9AM, right down that street."  Lori and I both got a grin on our faces as I said the owner, "We are now" as we closed the donut box.   

circa 1986
We dropped the donuts in Lori's brand new white Toyota Corolla and proceeded to register for the race.  As we did, they asked if we wanted to enter the couple's race category.  "Why yes, yes we do", we said.  When they saw where we were from they began to tell us about the local couple who had NEVER been beaten in the couple's race.  Both Lori and I stiffened our spines at this news and never said another word to each other.  She went and did her thing and I went and did my thing as we locked into race mode.  It was funny how quickly we both switched gears and became focused on racing.  As we put on our racing flats she looked at me and said, "You're right, you never know when you need a good pair of these".

After registration, the race had about 400 people total and the couple we were to lock into battle with certainly were well known based on how they were greeted by everyone as they pranced around before the race. I was sizing the guy up and I’m sure Lori was doing the same for her side of the competition. The couple's race category winners would be determined by adding the male and female times together.  The couple with the combined lowest total time would win, so we both knew every second would count. As we went to the line neither Lori nor I said another word after putting on our racing flats.  We didn’t need to, we both knew what what had to be done.

Winning my 3rd
Charleston 15 Miler...
this one under 1:15:00
The race was an out-and-back 5K at nearly 6,700' elevation.  When the gun sounded I took off hard and it was clear early on the male portion of the famous couple was a dud.  I never saw him.  As I made the turn around I saw Lori was in a battle but by the end she had pulled away to win the women's race by nearly 20 seconds and I had won the men's race by nearly 90 seconds defeating the male portion of the duo by nearly 2 1/2 minutes.  As we waited for the awards ceremony they had a special door prize drawing for a running suit made out of a fairly new product to the running industry called Gore-Tex.  This new product was waterproof, very expensive (especially for two college kids) and the talk of the running world.  As the crowd talked up the Gore-Tex running suit, the announcer said, “We have a winner”…as they drew race number #347. “Lori McKee, Blacksburg, Virginia”, the announcer called.  “We have a winner?”…Yes, we do have a winner I thought.

As they proceeded with the awards ceremony we both won the overall race titles, along with the couple's category and the grand door prize drawing. It was a simple small town race but as we walked away with trophies, gift certificates, free shoes and the Gore-Tex rain gear in hand I remember thinking I knew no one else who would spend 10 days in the high country at 10,000 feet living on wild trout to come down on the fly to run their guts out in a fairly low key race so we could win a couples race.  It might have been low key to some people but for both of us, once we started our race warm-up, it might as well been the Olympic Trials because our intensity was the same and our intent was simple: WIN.  I thought to myself, "WOW, she really likes to win", which I heavily prefer over the alternative. I don’t care what anyone says, winning is always, always better than losing and there is nothing either of us detests more than losing.  Again, it was obvious she was special...It was obvious she was amazing... Everything... everything was obvious.

As we entered the fall, Lori accepted a teaching position in Chesapeake, VA while I began my VT career in uniform following the year of NCAA residency following my transfer.  Running was amazing that year capped off with a 3rd place finish in the NCAA DI Championships 10K in Louisiana (LSU) and my 5K and 10K track marks dropped under 13:50 and 28:50 respectively.  However, Lori was 5 1/2 hours away in Chesapeake, VA and it was miserable for us both. That's when we knew for sure that our futures were meant to be united and our life's circle would begin.  A year after our Montana/Wyoming trip on July 25, 1987 we married in her church in Annandale, VA prior to my redshirt senior year at VT.  On that 102 degree July day my beautiful bride walked down the aisle with her dad and I stood there thinking how amazing she was. As I stood at the alter I turned to my teammate and Best Man, Tom Harding as she walked towards me and simply said, “Wow”.

As we turned to leave the alter and exit the church, we stopped at the front row of pews where we each placed a pair of white Adidas running shoes. We paused and changed from our formal dress shoes into the new running shoes, provided by our then sponsor.  No one knew what we were doing until we tied my right and Lori's left shoe together in multiple knots and then started running with three legs out of the church. Those Adidas shoes are still tied in a knot and sitting in our living room and will never be untied.  We are still laughing and that marked the start of our journey... 
We tied our Adidas running shoes together in multiple
knots on July 25, 1987 and ran laughing
with 3 legs out of  the church.
Hard to do in a dress and tuxedo.
Those Adidas shoes are still tied in a knot
and still sitting in our living room.
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Lori, Luke and me.
That was 25 years ago today and I find her even more amazing now. It truly seems like yesterday with so many memories vividly etched into my mind.  The countless races and travel around the world, the teams and athletes we've coached and the laugh's we've had and continue to have are all ours.  Those are memories we've made...memories that we've made together.